What girl doesn’t become ecstatic about being asked to be in her bestie’s wedding?  After all, the next best thing to planning your own nuptials is helping your BFF pin down all the dainty little details of her own.  Parties, planning, shopping and some pampering- being a bridesmaid can seem like a dream come true. However, there’s a flip side to all of the excitement.  If you’ve never been a bridesmaid before, and you don’t know much about about the …