We’ve all seen the heart-warming scene on the silver screen where the blushing bride sits down at the dining room table with her doting mother and maid of honor to write out guest lists and seating charts and itineraries — scratch that idea!  No longer does an inundated bride have to drag a teeming wedding binder around whenever she needs to get down to some serious wedding planning business.  As social media and informative apps become a greater and greater …